Accidents of Marriage by Randy Susan Meyers

accidents of marriageBlurb from goodreads.com, please scroll down for my review.

Accidents of Marriage explores a topic rarely shown in fiction: the destruction left in the wake of spouse’s verbal fury. Ben never meant to hurt Maddy. He never imagined his recklessness would lead to tragedy.

Maddy is a social worker trying to balance her career and three children. Years ago, she fell in love with Ben, a public defender, drawn to his fiery passion, but now he’s lashing out at her during his periodic verbal furies. She vacillates between tiptoeing around him and asserting herself for the sake of their kids – which works to keep a fragile peace – until the rainy day when they’re together in the car and Ben’s volatile temper gets the best of him, leaving Maddy in the hospital fighting for her life.

Randy Susan Meyers takes us inside the hearts and minds of her characters, alternating among the perspectives of Maddy, Ben, and their fourteen-year-old daughter. Accidents of Marriage is a provocative and stunning novel that will resonate deeply with women from all walks of life, ultimately revealing the challenges of family, faith, and forgiveness.

ACCIDENTS OF MARRIAGE explores a topic rarely shown in fiction: the damaging effects of a spouse’s emotional abuse.

My Review

I found this to be a rather irritating book, why oh why did someone stay so long with someone if they were being treated this way, I understand certain moments, trying to keep things together for the sake of the children but there is a limit. Anyhow things turn out for the best, but not until something really awful happens and before things turn out for the best things get really bad.

It is a really (once again really) tough subject to read and write about, I did wonder as i read it, if the author had personal experience with the subject.

The book itself is well written, the characters are also well described and detailed. I felt sorry for Emma, in a big way, she took on so much for her age it just wasn´t fair.

This is defiantly a book you might want to think about reading before you do so due to the subject, especially if you know or have experienced abuse.

I enjoyed the style of writing, each chapter a different character with Ben, Maddie and Emma sharing their thoughts.

This is the first book I have read by the author and I am not sure I will read another. This is far from the worst book I have read, so if you like the subject, give it a go. The title and the cover are great.


randy susan meyersAbout this author

I was born in Brooklyn, New York, where I quickly moved from playing with dolls to incessantly reading, spending most of my time at the Kensington Branch Library. Early on I developed a penchant for books rooted in social issues, my early favorites being “Karen” and “The Family Nobody Wanted.” Shortly I moved onto Jubilee and The Diary of Anne Frank.

My dreams of justice simmered at the fantastically broadminded Camp Mikan, where I went from camper to counselor, culminating in a high point when (with the help of my strongly Brooklyn-accented singing voice), I landed the role of Adelaide in the staff production of “Guys and Dolls.”

Soon I was ready to change the world, starting with my protests at Tilden High and City College of New York, until I left to pursue the dream in Berkeley, California, where I supported myself by selling candy, nuts, and ice cream in Bartons of San Francisco. Then, world-weary at too-tender an age, I returned to New York, married, and traded demonstrations for diapers.

While raising two daughters, I tended bar, co-authored a nonfiction book on parenting, ran a summer camp, and (in my all-time favorite job, other than writing) helped resurrect and run a community center.

Once my girls left for college, I threw myself deeper into social service and education by working with batterers and victims of domestic violence. I’m certain my novels are imbued with all the above, as well as my journey from obsessing over bad boys to loving a good man.

Many things can save your life–children who warm your heart, the love of a good man, a circle of wonderful friends, and a great sister. After a tumultuous start in life, I’m lucky enough to now have all these things. I live in Boston with my husband, where I live by the words of Gustave Flaubert: “Be regular and orderly in your life, so that you may be violent and original in your work.”


Accidents of Marriage



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Product Details
File Size: 2164 KB
Print Length: 368 pages
Publisher: Atria Books (September 2, 2014)
Sold by: Simon and Schuster Digital Sales Inc
Language: English
ASIN: B00HB62MTI

Genre: romance, woman´s fiction, contemporary, book club, click lit.

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